How Can We Rejoice?

***Please Note: This Homily was given off-the-cuff, 

and the text below represents my best attempt reconstruct what was said***

Third Sunday of Advent

            Most people know that I like to prepare my homilies and have a text in front of me when I preach.  It helps keep me from going off on tangents, which I like to do.  I prepared my homily on Friday morning, and, as I stand here now, the one I wrote doesn’t seem to work well.

            Our Mass today focuses us on joy.  It’s called Gaudete Sunday, which means joy.  We light the rose (not pink!) candle, and I’m wearing a rose vestment to represent the fact that we’re more than half way to our celebration of Christmas.  Listen again to our first reading: “Shout for joy, O daughter Zion!  Sing joyfully, O Israel!  […] The Lord, your God…will rejoice over you with gladness…he will sing joyfully because of you as one sings at festivals.”  Our psalm for today continues: “Cry out with joy and gladness,” in the response, and the verse includes, “With joy you will draw water at the fountain of salvation.”    St. Paul takes up the same word in our second reading from his letter to the Philippians: “Rejoice in the Lord always.  I shall say it again: rejoice!” 

            And yet, with all that has happened in the past week, we might wonder what there is to rejoice about.  This past week I had the honor, though it was not an honor that I would have wanted, to concelebrate the funeral of a 49-year-old man who succumbed to cancer, and who leaves behind a widow and five children.  And then on Friday we learned about the shooting of young children in Connecticut.  Perhaps some of you have had your own personal sorrows during this past week, and we’ve all certainly had some in the past month or year.

            So at a time like this, how can the Church tell us to rejoice?  How dare the Church tell us to rejoice!  But we do rejoice.  We rejoice because we are closer to celebrating the birth of Jesus, the light of the world.  We rejoice because Christ is like the light of that rose candle, in the midst of the darkness of the world, and in the darkness with is so thick you can almost feel it, Jesus says to us, “Do not be afraid.  Follow me.”  We rejoice because we are more than halfway to our celebration of Christmas, and because with each passing day, we are one day closer to Christ coming again, to bring the fullness of His Kingdom, where there will be no more death, no more sorrow, no more tears, no more sin. 

            We rejoice even in the midst of death because of Jesus who said, “I am the resurrection and the life.  Whoever believes in me will never die.”    We rejoice because our God loves us so much that He does not abandon us in our pain and our mourning.  We rejoice because our God came among us and wept at the death of His friend, Lazarus, just as He weeps now at the senseless violence.  We rejoice because our God loves us so much that He gives Himself to us, to become one with us, in the Eucharist, so that we can touch our God.  Our God loves us so much that He allows us to hear Him in His Word. 

            If our joy is in this world, then it is not a time of rejoicing.  But if our joy is in Jesus, than we can rejoice.  We rejoice because our wait is almost over; our King is coming and will not delay; the day of our salvation is at hand.  

The Best Things

Second Sunday of Advent

            From time to time, surfing through the channels on the TV, I’ll see a worship service for a mega-church, or a televangelist ministry.  Most times I skip over them, but every once in a while I stop and listen to what is being said.  Because we share faith in Jesus Christ, a lot of what is said is very familiar and is consistent with what the Church teaches.  However, there are some that preach what’s called the “Gospel of Prosperity,” that is, if you tithe 10% of your adjusted gross income, and you come to Church, and you do all these different things, you’ll never have to worry about money, a house, family problems, etc.  It’s easy to see why people are drawn to that message: who wouldn’t want all the good things that this earth has to offer?  But often, those who are truly striving to live out their faith do have to struggle with a lot of issues, whether of money, or health, or family.  Our view, then, as Catholics, is not quite the same as those who preach the Gospel of Prosperity.

            However, the Word of God tells us today, and we certainly believe, that God wants the best for us.  God doesn’t just want a mediocre life for us, floating along with some good stuff, and some bad stuff.  God wants the best for us.  But God’s beneficence, His over-flowing goodness, is not limited to the things of this earth.  In fact, the things of this world often get in the way of truly drawing closer to God, though this is not always the case.

            Today in our first reading, the Prophet Baruch proclaims to us that God wants to do us good!  He wants us to take off our robes of mourning and misery, and put on the garment of rejoicing, the cloak of justice.  God wants the best for us, and He is going to make that best thing possible.  He is going to level the mountains for us so that we don’t have to climb, and he’s going to fill in the valleys for us so that the way is not hard.  He will lead us in joy “by the light of his glory, with his mercy and justice.”  Where is this path leading us, this level path?  This path is the path to the best things in life, which is not a thing at all, but a Person, a Communion of Persons, a Trinity of Persons, God Himself.  The best of all is God, and He wants to give us Himself.  That is why we pray and wait during this Advent season, to recall the moment when we could see the face of God in Jesus, and to get ready for that time when Jesus will come again, not as a little baby, but in all His glory in majesty.

            But, because we have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God, as St. Paul says in his letter to the Romans, we need guides.  Sometimes we can see the path and we’re ready to start walking.  Other times we lose sight of where we should be going, and we need a person to show us the way.  That’s where our Gospel comes in.

            St. Luke tells us about the ultimate trail guide of all time, St. John the Baptist.  He came to prepare the way of the Lord.  He came to show the straight path, to announce that the valleys have been filled in and the mountains have been made low, and the rough ways have been made smooth so that all people can see the salvation of God.  He’s there to point out the way, to announce it, and to prepare people to make that journey to true prosperity with God, the prosperity, the blessedness, of the saints.  St. John the Baptist preaches repentance, the way to see the path, to recognize Jesus who is Himself the Way.  He is the one who points to Jesus, when He comes, and says, “Behold the Lamb of God!  Behold him who takes away the sins of the world!”  Because of this, Jesus says of him that of those born from women, there is none greater than John the Baptist.

            And yet, Jesus also says that the least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than St. John the Baptist.  How can this be?  How can we be greater than the Precursor of the Lord?  Well, we, too, are called to point out the Lamb of God.  We, too, are called to help others find that path to true blessedness, the path that leads to God.  Under the guidance of Holy Mother Church, who tenderly and firmly helps us to understand what God has revealed through Jesus Christ in the power of the Holy Spirit, we are called to point out to others the way to true happiness.  Sometimes it happens by correction, or advice to avoid this or do that, whether it be with a family member, a co-worker, a friend, or whomever.  Other times it is simply by the joy and peace that we display as we conform our lives, not to this age and its opinions, but to the enduring Word of God, which is the same yesterday, today, and forever, even as it is applied in new ways to ever-changing circumstances.  We, like St. John the Baptist and (dare I say) the Blues Brothers, are on a mission from God, to help others find that straight, level path to God.

            Sometimes it will mean prosperity for us.  There are certainly many people to whom God gives many blessings, and invites them to share those blessings with others.  Other times, those closest to God are the ones who suffer the most, like Job, the apostles, the saints who were martyred, saints who put up with great trials like St. Kateri, St. Damien of Molokai, Bl. Teresa of Calcutta.  Some people very easily understand the loving and cheeky words of St. Teresa of Avila, “Lord, if this is how you treat your friends, no wonder you have so few of them!”  But, whether, by the standards of this world, we are blessed or cursed, what truly matters is that we are prospering in drawing closer to God and following His will in all things, so that we can follow along the straight and level path to God, which will give us the desire of every heart, and the best thing that there is: communion with the Blessed Trinity itself.

Why Advent?

First Sunday of Advent

            As I prepared this homily for the First Sunday in Advent, a question arose in my mind: why do we even have advent?  Christmas songs began on some radio stations on All Saints Day, November 1.  Christmas decorations went up in most stores at about the same time.  So why take this time, this season of hope, this season of penance?  Is it just an excuse for the clergy to swap vestments from green to violet, with rose stuck in on the third Sunday just for good measure?  Why bring out a wreath with four candles to mark the passing of time?  We have iPhones and Droids which have much more sexy apps to countdown to Christmas.  Why Advent?

            Advent is lost to the extent that it’s misunderstood.  It loses its force and its power when we don’t know why we do what we do.  And to understand in order that we might believe, perhaps we need to take a look at Advent again, to capture its beauty and its power.

            Advent comes from the Latin word adveniens and means “a coming.”  What we celebrate in Advent is not just any coming, any expectation for any person, but the expectation for the Person who reveals man to his very self, as Gaudium et spes, 22, from the Second Vatican Council says.  We are awaiting Jesus.  Because we are only 23 days away from the celebration of Jesus’ birth, that naturally leads us to feel like we are preparing for Christmas.  But St. Bernard of Clairvaux reminds us that Advent is really a celebration, an expectation, of three comings of Christ: the first coming at Bethlehem which we celebrate at Christmas; the second coming of Christ at the end of time, which our readings focus on today; and the thid coming of Jesus: the desire of Christ to come into our hearts daily and make a home there, so that Christ might be born in us.

            To help us prepare for the first coming, the celebration of Jesus’ birth at Bethlehem, we use symbols: some in the home, some at Church.  In the Church we use an advent wreath with four candles, traditionally 3 violet and 1 rose, to give us a visual reminder of how close we are.  And candles are fitting because they remind us of Jesus who is the light of the world.  The closer we get to celebrating the birth of Jesus, the more light there is, even as the days get shorter around us and darkness increases.  Even the traditional colors of the candles are dark, and yet the third rose candle reminds us that our wait is almost over, that we are more than halfway to the joyful celebration of our knowledge that “the Word was made flesh and dwelt among us.”  In your homes you might have an advent wreath as well.  Others will use a calendar where you open little panels that reveal a fuller picture of the Nativity, sometimes with recommended passages from Scripture, other times with little chocolates.  However as we draw closer to celebrating the birth of Jesus, we are meant to be more and more excited as the day of celebration draws near.

            The second coming is the main focus of the first two weeks of advent, when we still hear readings of how Jesus will come in glory to establish the fullness of His kingdom, where Christ is King of the Universe and all others are subject to Him.  That is why advent takes on a penitential tone, because all of us are in need of further conversion.  Some of us may be more ready than others for Jesus’ second coming, but we take on penances to atone for our sins that have placed ourselves or another on a throne, rather than Jesus.  Whether Jesus comes on December 21, or tomorrow, or whenever, Advent reminds us to stay awake and be ready for the bridegroom to return.  For at the moment we least expect, He will come.  We light our candles in imitation of the wise virgins who kept enough oil in their lamps to be ready to welcome the Bridegroom with their flames burning brightly.

            The third coming of Jesus—His desire to enter into our hearts—is something that we can grow in every day of the year, not just at this time.  But we take this special time to redouble our efforts to make straight the pathways of our God.  We take this time to level the mountains and fill in the valleys that make an obstacle for Jesus to come to us.  Just as we clean our house to welcome family and friends over for Christmas celebrations, so we should be daily striving to clean our hearts and souls to welcome the Trinity into us.  Maybe we take time each day to slowly read over the meditation from the Little Blue Book, or Magnificat, and spend the time and energy it takes to develop a deep, strong relationship with the Lord; maybe we attend sung Evening Prayer on Friday evenings at 6:30 p.m. at St. Thomas to stretch our usual forms of prayer; maybe we join a Bible study, or a faith-sharing group; maybe we celebration the Sacrament of Reconciliation on the usual days or with the greater Lansing area on December 16 at 2 p.m. at St. Thomas; whatever we do, the key is that we are trying to make more time for Jesus so that He is comfortable in our hearts, rather than a stranger.  And, we pray for those who have been away from the Lord, away from His Church, inviting them to join us again in this holy place, because Christ wants to enter their hearts as well, and He often uses His disciples to extend that invitation.

            If we treat this time no differently than any other; if we figure that we’ve been preparing for the parties, the eggnog, the gift giving, and the hype of the secular celebration of Christmas since November 1, then I can assure you that you won’t be ready when Christ comes: for the celebration of the first coming at Christmas; for the celebration of the second coming at the end of time; and for the daily desire of Christ to come into your heart.  But, if amidst the hustle and bustle of the secular season, you take time to spend with the Lord in prayer, getting to know Him better and letting the symbols touch your heart and soul, then I can also assure you that you will know the joy of the angels as they sang “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to people of good will,” as we celebrate the first coming; you will know the joy of the elect as Christ comes a second time as the eternal King of Glory, with everything subjected to His reign; and you will know the joy of the abiding presence of God as He comes into your heart and makes His home there, truly making you a temple of the Holy Spirit, and the dwelling place of God.

Marana tha! or Dies Irae?

Thirty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time

            It’s clear that our readings today focus on the end times.  And perhaps this subject is already on our mind with the impending arrival of December 21, 2012 (though, we should pay close attention to our Lord’s words at the end of today’s Gospel: “‘But of that day or hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father’”).  But whether we have been thinking about it or not, the Word of God calls us to remember that this world is passing away, and a new world is coming where the Kingdom of God will be revealed in its fullness.

            Because the end of the world as we know it means the beginning of the world as God intends it, we should want the world to end.  In Sacred Scripture, the response of the Christians to the world ending is Marana tha!, an aramaic phrase that means, “Come, Lord Jesus!”  The Book that we associate with the Final Judgement, the Book of Revelation, is precisely a book of consolation.  St. John consoles the early Christians by assuring them that the persecutions and sufferings of this age will end, evil will be vanquished, and the reign of Christ, the Lamb who was slain but lives, will be ushered in.  It will be the time when “[Jesus’] enemies are made his footstool,” as our second reading from the Letter to the Hebrews stated.

            But there is another response besides Marana tha! which is also associated with the end times: Dies irae in Latin, or “Day of wrath,” in English.  This is the response of those who have put themselves at enmity with God, and for whom the coming judgement is feared because the establishment of the fullness of the Kingdom of God means the destruction of their own kingdom.  As Dies Irae states, “Tearful will be that day/ on which from the ash arises/ the guilty man who is to be judged.”

            What is our response to the second coming of Christ?  For those who are following the will of God in their lives, it is likely, Marana tha!  For those who are following their own will, it will likely be a Dies irae.  Even our first reading sets up the dichotomy of two responses to the end.  The Lord tells Daniel that when St. Michael comes, the great angel (that is, messenger) of the judgment of God, for some “‘it shall be a time unsurpassed in distress since nations began until that time.’”  And yet, the just “‘shall escape,’” and the wise, “‘shall shine brightly likely the splendor of the firmament, and those who lead the many to justice shall be like the stars forever.’”

            Some of you may be thinking right now, “Why so morbid?  What exactly happened on that pilgrimage to the Holy Land?”  But reflecting on the end times is a perennial call of the Church, to remind us of the eternal consequences of our actions.  Let’s be honest, sometimes we need a little fear in our life to do the right thing, because we still labor under the effects of original sin.  Some people like to speed while driving, so I’m told.  But when they see a police car on the side of the road, they are reminded to slow down.  Some students would much rather take the short cut of copying off a neighbor’s test, but the watchful eye of the teacher or professor can help us to avoid that temptation.  Being reminded of the end times reminds us that, while we may get away with just about anything here on earth, we will be called to account for our actions before the judgment seat of God who is Truth itself, and no amount of sweet-talking or rationalizing will change the truth of what we have done.

            That is why the Church recommends a regular examination of conscience and frequent confession, to call us back to the Lord, and to have our sins forgiven while they still can be.  Because once we have died, there is no more time for conversion: we have either said yes to God and will be welcomed by the saints into heaven (even if we need a little purifying from our attachment to sin in Purgatory), or we have said no to God and will be welcomed by Satan and the fallen angels into Hell.  We either receive the reward of eternal happiness as the consequence of our good choices, or we receive the punishment of eternal damnation as the consequence of our unrepented sin. 

            So we can ask ourselves: do I enjoy spending time with God?  Do I attend Mass each Sunday and Holyday?  Do I take time each day to pray?  If so, Marana tha!; Come, Lord Jesus.  Or do I go throughout my day without giving God a thought, and make excuses why Mass is inconvenient for me or just plain, old boring?  If so, Dies irae; Day of Wrath.  Have I made a god out of power, prestige, sports, influence, money, or any other created good?  Dies irae.  Or do I seek to serve and to put all things in their proper order, so that God is first, others are second, and I am last?  Marana tha!  Am I greedy?  Do I keep things from the poor and those in need, and therefore keep them from Christ, especially clothes or other goods that I will never use?  Dies irae.  Or am I generous with what I have, especially my time and the gifts that God has given me to share with others?  Marana tha! 

            May the coming judgment, which will find us individually at our death, and universally at the second coming, be for us not a day of wrath, but an invitation for the Lord Jesus to come.  And as even Dies Irae states, “O you, God of majesty, gracious splendor of the Trinity, join us with the blessed.  Amen.”

What Question Do We Ask God?

Thirty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time

            This past Monday, Bishop Mengeling gave a wonderful talk on the Year of Faith and his time at the Second Vatican Council.  He had some amazing slides from both outside and inside St. Peter’s during some of the sessions.  Before the talk, a few members of the pastoral staff and members of the adult formation team had dinner with Bishop Mengeling and I.  At one point of the conversation, Bishop Mengeling mentioned the questions he would have for God when he died, and some of the others mentioned their own questions to God that they are saving up for when they meet their Maker.

            In today’s Gospel, a scribe asked Jesus a question.  Now, recall that the scribes and Jesus didn’t always get along.  The scribes, along with the Pharisees and Sadducees, were always trying to trap Jesus, to get Him to say something so they could write Jesus off as neither a prophet nor sent by God.  At the first hearing of the question, maybe we think it’s another trap being set: “‘Which is the first of all the commandments?’”  Maybe, we could think, this scribe was trying to trick Jesus into giving a wrong answer. 

            Jesus responds with the Shema, the text we heard from our first reading, which forms the heart of the Jewish faith, and was to be said by Jews each day: “Hear, O Israel!  The Lord our God is Lord alone!  You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.”  He then adds a second commandment, from the Book of Leviticus: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”  The scribe then agrees with Jesus.  But rather than Jesus condemning the scribe for trying to trap Him, as Jesus did with so many others, Jesus says, “‘You are not far from the kingdom of God.’”  This is a different type of question; one asked not so much to trap, as to truly find out the truth.

            What question would we ask Jesus?  What question do we ask Jesus?  Maybe there’s lots of little trivia that we want to know: did Adam and Eve have belly buttons?  What does Jesus really look like in His human body?  How many angels can fit on the head of a pin?  But this scribe, who was basically congratulated for his question, asked about salvation.  The question of ‘what is the greatest commandment?’ is basically a question about what the most important thing is to know and do.  And Jesus answers that question.

            Especially in an academic community like East Lansing, we can have lots of questions for God.  Sometimes they are questions about trivia.  Sometimes they are weightier questions about life and death, why suffering exists.  Those are not bad questions.  But there’s a hierarchy of truths, and the first one on our mind should be ‘how do I get to spend eternity with God?’  If God made us for Himself, and our hearts are restless until they rest in Him, to paraphrase St. Augustine, then the first question on our minds should be how we come to rest in God?  To answer that, we turn back to the scribe’s question.

            Jesus answers that the first commandment is about knowing and doing.  We must know who God is.  Only in the measure that we know God can we love God.  If we know God well, we can love Him more.  If we know God poorly, we won’t love God as much as we need to or want to.  Jesus starts out with the unity of God; God is one.  And yet, God is love, and love is self-diffusive; it gives out.  So our one God is also a communion of Persons: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.  And God sent His Son, Jesus, to reveal to us in a human body just how far that love goes.  That’s what we see on the cross: God’s love.  Then God sends the Holy Spirit to those who have gotten to know Jesus in order to continue the work of Jesus after He ascended into heaven.  That’s the Church.  The Holy Spirit continues the work of Jesus by continuing to teach the truth (the teaching office of the Church) and by sharing God’s love with those who want it and who have faith in God (that’s the sacramental life of the Church, where God’s love which is grace, is poured into our hearts by the 7 Sacraments and by our connecting to Jesus through prayer).  Just like in the New Testament, some continue to receive the truth and love that God reveals (especially those who recognize their need for God, that is, sinners), and there are some who continue to reject the truth and love that God reveals (especially those who think that they have all the answers themselves, and who don’t need anyone). 

            But besides just knowing who God is, Jesus also reminds us that we are called to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength; in other words, with all of who we are.  Jesus calls us not just to know, but to act and respond to that love.  And if we are called through Baptism to be members of Christ’s Body, the Church, then our mission is the same as Jesus’ mission: to reveal the truth and the love of God.  We are also called, in loving God with our entire self, to preach the truth to others by our words and to give them the love of God through our actions.  Some may reject the light of truth and choose to remain in the darkness of their own opinions.  Some may even reject God’s love because it makes demands on their life and calls for conversion.  But, as Jesus Himself said, “‘If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you.  If they kept my word, they will also keep yours.’”

            In this Year of Faith, let us continually seek to rest in God by taking practical ways to get to know God better—through prayer, study, and silence—and by taking practical ways to love God better—through prayer, giving of our time and talent, and supporting one another—so that, at the end of our lives, we can say when Jesus questions us, that we have tried our best to know the God who is One, and to love Him with all our heart, soul, mind and strength.  

Our Camaraderie with God

Thirtieth Sunday in Ordinary Time

            Many of the adults I talk to who have children who frequently misbehave, tell me that they feel like they are getting their just desserts.  “Father,” they tell me, “when I was a kid I was a real trouble maker.  I kept my mom and dad up late at night, worrying about whether I was ok.  At the time, I didn’t think it was a big deal, but now that I have kids, I realize how difficult I made it for my mom and dad, and I appreciate all their love and concern all the more.” 

            There’s something about having someone know exactly what you’re going through that gives you a real sense of camaraderie.  While anyone can be a critic, only coaches know how hard it is to get your players to perform at the level of which you know they are capable so the team can win.  When there is a death of a loved one, especially a spouse, parent, or child, we rightfully support each other, but only one who has lost a spouse, parent, or child truly understands what that person is going through.

            What camaraderie we have, then, with our God!  God knows us.  He knows us better than we do ourselves.  He knows what will truly make us happy, and how we can best achieve that happiness.  But the shocker is that, not only does God teach us how we are to live in order to be happy, but He joins us to Himself and experiences life just like we do, but without sin.  This is the scandal of the Incarnation: that God, who existed before all else, who cannot suffer, who was subject to nothing, would lower Himself and take on human flesh and feel the heat of the burning sun, the cool of the desert night, would stub his toe occasionally while walking, and would be tempted to all the things we are, and then freely be nailed to a cross in order to save us.  While we have grown used to this narrative over 2,000 years, this is truly amazing!!  God did not have to join a human nature to His divine nature in Jesus.  There was no compulsion to take on human limitations.  But out of love for us, Jesus did all that.

            In our first reading, God talks about how He will lead his people from exile into joy.  He promises to bring gather them, and to console them after their sorrows.  He will even make the road easy for them, without hills or valleys, without twists or turns.  He will free them from their oppression.  And in Jesus, God does that.  In our Gospel, Jesus heals a blind man, Bartimaeus.  He restores light and vision to the man’s eyes, the man who had walked in darkness for a long time.  But God does not just do this like a magic trick.  He does not simply will it to be from the heavens.  Instead, He takes the journey with us, from exile into freedom, from darkness into light.

            In Jesus, God knew the weight of sin, though He was sinless Himself.  As holiness itself in a human body, Jesus could sense all the disobedience around Him.  It must have made His very being convulse interiorly at the separation that sin causes.  But, He took that sin upon Himself and freed us from it.  It is as if He took our hand as we were lost, and told us, “I’ll lead you back home.”  In Jesus, we could hold hands with God, and be led where we needed to go.

            Although God knows the eye better than we do ourselves, in Jesus God sees with His eyes.  He has eyes that receive light and shadow and color, and so as He comes to Bartimaeus and senses his faith, He restores sight to that man to bring him back into the light. 

            Our God is not the god of the deists, a disinterested clockmaker who set the world in motion and lets it work according to its mechanical rules.  Our God is the loving Father, who sends His Son to experience life with us, and to show us the way to true happiness.  Yes, He knows the pain of sin because He knows how He created us and He knows that sin does not fulfill who we are.  But He also knows the weight and pain through Jesus’ human nature, such that He cries out from the cross using the words of King David in Psalm 22, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”  Through always united to God, He drinks the pain of sin, not just a sip, but to the dregs, so that we can have life.  Yes, God knows darkness because He separated the day from the night, but He also has eyes that see and experiences the joy of vision with human eyes.

            So, do you know that God?  Do you know the God who not only knows you because He is God, but because He has also taken to Himself human flesh, never to separate from it?  Would you be comfortable enough having breakfast with this God?  Or do you prefer the anonymous, distant god?  To be honest, the anonymous, distant god is easier to deal with.  It’s like that fourth cousin, once removed who lives in Mississippi.  Sure, we’re family, but there’s no real relationship there.  And that way, he makes no demands on me, and I make no demands on Him.  We’re just associated with each other.  Do you know Jesus such that you would be comfortable spending time with Him, and making a sacrifice for Him?  A relationship means that there are demands on one’s affections.  Friends do this and don’t do that.  Jesus invites us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us.  He invites us to be pure of heart, mind, and body.  Jesus invites us to take up our cross daily and follow Him, to value everything less than our relationship with Him.  Those demands only make sense if we have a relationship with Him.  If not, they just seem like rules and regulations.

            The Good News is that Jesus knows us, and He knows the reality of our situation, in His human nature as one like us in all things but sin, and in His divine nature as our Creator.  The upside is that, if we are willing to have a relationship with the God who took on human flesh, then we can grasp that fleshy hand as He says to us, “Come with me.  Let me take you from the exile of sin into the freedom of holiness; from the darkness of death into the light of life.”  “Come, follow me.”  

Kenny Chesney & the Rich Young Man

Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

            This may come as a surprise to some of you, but I’m a fan of country music.  Others may have noticed my cowboy boots and country hat that I have worn.  One of the popular country stars in these days is Kenny Chesney.  He has such hits as “Boys of Fall,” “You and Tequila,” and “She Thinks My Tractor’s Sexy.”  Lesser known is his song, “Everybody Wants to Go to Heaven.”  The words of the refrain are: “Everybody wants to go to heaven/ Have a mansion high above the clouds/ Everybody wants to go to heaven/ but nobody wants to go now.” 

            Today’s readings also focus us on what our priorities are: are they earthly or are they heavenly?  In the first reading, the Sacred Author, traditionally regarded as King Solomon, says that he prayed for prudence and wisdom, and he received it.  He wanted it more than “scepter and throne, and deemed riches nothing in comparison with her, nor did [he] liken any priceless gem to her; because all gold, in view of her, is a little sand, and before her, silver is to be accounted mire.”  He didn’t care about good health and being attractive, and even about sleep.  Solomon here is not just talking about being book smart or street smart, but is talking about the wisdom from above, the wisdom from God so that Solomon could know what is important, and what is less or unimportant.  But, even though Solomon talks about only wanting the wisdom of God, he also says, “Yet all good things together came to me in her company, and countless riches at her hands.”  Having the wisdom of God did not deny Solomon the good things, but, instead, brought the truly good things to him.

            Jesus, in the Gospel, talks about obstacles to heaven, as seen in the Rich Young Man.  The man had kept all of the commandments, and so Jesus told him that he lacked just one thing: “‘Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.’”  But the man couldn’t bring himself to make that radical step.  The Word of God, Jesus Christ the Divine Word, was sharper than any sword for that man, penetrated between soul and spirit, joint and marrow, and was able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart, and that Rich Young Man’s heart loved his possessions more than he loved Jesus.  Now, to be clear, Jesus did not condemn wealth.  But, Jesus did condemn making wealth a god, and preferring it to following Him.  He also warned how easy it is for riches to become an obstacle to salvation, going so far as to say, “‘It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for one who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.’”  Money so easily becomes a god unto itself which beckons like a siren to be loved and treasured above all else, and to try and make more and more and more.

            Now, money isn’t an obstacle for all people.  It’s so easy to place other lesser goods between us and the Lord, so that the demand isn’t so great.  We could prefer status to Jesus; or vacation; or power; or prestige; or even just our own will.  Each of those things, and so many more, can be things that we feel we cannot let go, even if the Lord is calling us to abandon them in order to follow Him more deeply.  Our relationship with Jesus, truly knowing Him and loving Him, has to be first, with no excuses why anything else is more important.  If today Jesus appeared right in your midst, in His glorified body, and said to you, “You can spend two hours with me here, or I will give you the winning Powerball numbers so you can win $50 million dollars,” what would we say?  I know what I should say.  And maybe you’re like me, and want to immediately rationalize what we could do with $50 million dollars.  But the only right answer is Jesus.  And even if money isn’t your temptation, it could be good grades, a good job, a nice vacation getaway, or, again, maybe just having your own way.  But, the key is, what comes first for us?

            What’s interesting is that the choice isn’t: follow Jesus and be miserable, or follow whatever little god is important to you and have pleasure.  After St. Peter tells Jesus, “‘We have given up everything and followed you,’” Jesus replies, “‘there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands for my sake and for the sake of the gospel who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age…and eternal life in the age to come.’”  Now, Jesus is also clear that with following Him comes persecution.   But you also receive a lot more, even in this age, not to mention eternal life and happiness with God.  Bl. Teresa of Calcutta attests to that; she preferred nothing to Jesus.  And even though she didn’t even own the sari on her back and went through intense spiritual darkness, she was truly happy.  Venerable Solanus Casey is another good example.  He was ordained a priest, but he was not allowed to hear confessions or preach sermons.  Most of his work was opening doors to the monastery, and serving the poor.  Yet I dare you to find a happier man, who also brought such joy to those he met. 

            Nothing is more important than our relationship with Jesus.  Nothing even comes close to its worth.  The Lord asks each of us today: what is an obstacle to our relationship?  What keeps us from drawing close to Him?  “‘Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides.’”

The Icon of Marriage

Twenty-Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

            If there’s one gift that I admire in people, it’s the gift of being an artist; of being able to take pencils, or crayons, or paints, or charcoal and create an image that truly looks like something, whether it’s a landscape, a person, or a scene.  Try as I might, I just don’t have that gift.  The best I can do is stick figures and basic shapes, and they never seem to look like what I am imagining or picturing in my head, no matter how hard I try.

            When a piece of art looks like what it represents, it’s easy to tell the correlation.  When the art doesn’t look like what it represents, it’s difficult to find the correlation.  When an artist paints the Coliseum in Rome, you can tell what it is.  Why I try to draw the Coliseum, it could be a bathtub, a strainer, or just a blob.

            Jesus’ teaching today on marriage is all about correlation.  Marriage is meant to be an icon, and image, or something else.  And we see that in the beginning in Genesis.  Adam and Eve are created to be a communion of persons.  They are not simply to be two persons who happen to be in the same area, but they are meant to be joined in a relationship.  “‘It is not good for the man to be alone,’” God says, and so he makes Eve for Adam.  But Adam recognizes that this is not simply a second, but a part of him.  “‘This one, at last,’” Adam says, “‘is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.’”  The two are meant for each other.  And in that first couple, we see the design of marriage, as the sacred author says at the end, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one flesh.”

            But what are Adam and Eve, two persons but joined as one flesh, meant to represent?  They are the icon of the God’s relationship with humanity.  Adam and Eve are meant to be a physical representation in their marriage of God and human nature.  Just as Jesus is one Person, so Adam and Eve are both human.  And, just as Jesus has two distinct natures, so Adam and Eve retain their individuality.  Of course, an icon is an image; it is not the same.  And there are differences between the relationship between God and humanity and Adam and Eve.  But Adam and Eve are an image of the communion of marriage of God to humanity.

            Through the years, after the Fall of Adam and Eve, that image became marred.  It’s as if Fr. Anthony started to draw the image.  Yes, it had some resemblances to the original, but there were flaws.  Whereas God’s original plan was for one man and one woman to be joined as one flesh for life, very soon after the Fall men and women started to abuse the gift of their sexuality and so marred the image of marriage.  It was no longer one man and one woman, but maybe one man and lots of women.  And even in the Law given through Moses, while adultery is clearly forbidden (the Sixth Commandment), still, divorce is allowed by Moses, and the image of God’s communion of Persons is still not quite an accurate portrayal.

            But Jesus, the full revelation of the Father, the new Moses, cleans up the image.  He reminds the Pharisees that the husband and wife are not two, but one flesh, and what God has joined cannot be separated (unless, as in the passage from the Gospel according to St. Matthew, the marriage is not valid from the start).  Jesus calls the Chosen People back to the idea of radical fidelity, even in the face of unfaithfulness.  That is the message of almost all the prophets, who remind Israel that she is the Bride of God, and that she has been unfaithful.  But God, for His part, never abandoned her, and remains faithful for all time.  That image of marriage is based upon God Himself, who took to Himself a human nature, and will never separate or divorce that human nature from Himself.  He is one flesh with humanity.    And so Jesus says there this is no such thing as divorce from God’s perspective. 

            This is a tough teaching because it is a difficult image to live up to.  But that is precisely what marriage represents: the relationship between Jesus and humanity.  That is why preparation for marriage is so important, so that the union of a man and a woman is an accurate representation of the marriage of the divine to the human in Jesus Christ.  That is why it is so important for married couples to support each other, especially in difficult times, to remain faithful to their vows and to that image, as long as it does not endanger a person’s spiritual, mental, or emotional well-being.  The Church certainly does not want a spouse to be a punching bag, and sometimes separation is necessary.  Sometimes there was something that was missing from the marriage from the start, which may or may not have been known.  That is why the Church grants Declarations of Invalidity, or annulments, to recognize that what was necessary for that image to even be crafted may not have been there.  It does not illegitimate any of the aspects that looked like a real marriage, including the children, but it does recognize that something necessary was missing.

            To all those who have civil divorces in our community: while we cannot change Jesus’ teaching, we can also emphasize that Jesus still loves you and wants you as a part of His Body, the Church.  I have too often heard from people who have felt that because they are divorced (even though they are not civilly remarried) they cannot participate in the life of the Church.  That is the farthest from the truth.  As long as you are not doing anything which is improper for a married person, if you are divorced, you are still welcome to present yourself for all the sacraments, especially the Eucharist.  And whether you have or have not attempted remarriage outside of the Church, do not be afraid to come and meet with a priest to try to regularize your situation and obtain a declaration of invalidity.  Especially if you have attempted remarriage, Fr. Mark and I want to help you so that you can once again return to the sacramental life of the Church.

            The Church’s teaching on marriage can seem hard.  It can seem to many to be out of date and punitive.  But what the Church teaches is what Jesus teaches: that marriage is not just about one man and one woman becoming one flesh.  That union is meant to symbolize the bond of one human nature and one Divine nature in the one Divine Person of Jesus, a bond which Jesus will never separate, because God has joined them together.  Let us support each other, especially married couples, in living out that icon of love, so that the image is clear and recognizable of the unending and unbreakable bond of love of God with humanity.

Be a Prophet!!

Twenty-Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

            So often I think when Catholics hear the word “prophet,” we think of someone who can foretell the future.  In fact, in the Biblical accounts, while prophets do sometimes tell people what will happen as a result of their sin or conversion, the prophets are the ones who speak for God.  Their job is not to say on what exact date the world is going to end (apparently that job was already taken by the Mayans), or which lottery numbers to play, but to speak for God.  And in our first reading, we hear how God pours out a spirit of prophecy of 70 elders.  Towards the end of the passage today, Joshua gets a little envious, and is upset that Eldad and Medad, who were outside the camp when they were supposed to be with Moses, still received the spirit of prophecy.  Moses then prophesies, “‘Would that all the people of the Lord were prophets!  Would that the Lord might bestow his spirit on them all!’”  That prophecy was fulfilled at Pentecost, when the Lord poured out His Spirit upon the Blessed Mother, the Apostles, and the Disciples gathered in the Upper Room.  And then the Lord poured out His spirit on the new believers. 

            We, for our part, have also been made prophets.  The Lord has poured out His Spirit on us in Baptism and Confirmation.  At Baptism we were anointed with the Sacred Chrism, which reminded us that we are now a member of the Anointed One, the Messiah, the Christ, and we share in his priestly, prophetic, and kingly ministry of all the faithful.  In Confirmation, the Bishop or Priest called down the Holy Spirit upon us through prayer, and then anointed us again with the Sacred Chrism to seal us with the gift of the Holy Spirit.  And so, the prophecy of Moses was fulfilled in us as we were made prophets, those who speak for God.

            As a good examination of conscience we can ask ourselves: how do we speak for God, both by our words (the prophets of the Old Testament are always saying, “Thus says the Lord”) and by our deeds (like when Jeremiah made the clay pot, or Ezekiel acted as if he were in exile)?

            Are we a prophet when it comes to defending the dignity of the poor and truly assisting them?  People can debate the best way to help the poor legitimately.  But, as prophets, we must ensure that the poor, widows, and orphans, those whom the Lord favors, are protected from neglect and are not punished for their lack of means.  Are we a prophet when it comes to defending the dignity and definition of marriage?  Our culture is really confused about marriage right now.  But we know that marriage was created by God as the union between one man and one woman for life, and that good, happy, holy marriages should be protected because of the important role they play in forming good, happy, and holy societies.  Are we a prophet for the infant in the womb and the homebound, who are so often neglected?  Do we give those who do not have a voice our voice and speak for God so that mothers and fathers can make the only good choice, the choice for life, and so that the homebound are not “done away with” because they are a burden to society?  Are we prophets for religious freedom, the God-given right that we have to worship and to take what we have received in worship into the public sector and not be punished for our beliefs or for serving those who are not Catholic?

            Are we prophets by what we say and what we do (and in this election year, being a prophet includes speak for God when we vote)?  When we are not prophets, by what we say and by what we do, then we causes others to sin by assisting them in thinking that God’s message does not really matter; that we can separate what we believe and how we live.  That is the sin of scandal, and it occurs when, by our words or actions, we provide a witness that does not live up to our prophetic call to speak for God, so that others do not consider, for example, protecting the poor, the infant in the womb, the homebound, the true definition of marriage, and religious freedom.  When we don’t exercise our prophetic vocation that we received in Baptism and Confirmation, others notice: when they know that as Christians we are called to assist the poor as an act of charity, and yet we make wealth and possessions our little idols; when we say we’re pro-life but then our actions don’t reflect that belief; when we don’t assist married couples, especially when times are difficult for them; when we are silent in the midst of the government telling us that they will decide who qualifies for conscience protection; then we cause scandal and lead others to think that those issues don’t really matter.  And if that happens, woe to us, because Jesus is quite clear what we can expect: “‘it would be better for him [or her] if a great millstone were put around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.’”

            But, when we live up to our prophetic call to infuse the culture, our families, our neighborhoods, our jobs, politics, and all aspects of life with the message of God, the Gospel, then we will not lose our reward.  When we speak for God and not for ourselves, then others will know what God wants for this world in order that all people might life in peace, justice, and the love of God.  The Spirit of the Lord is upon you, because He has anointed you.  Go and announce the Gospel of the Lord.